ughhhhhhh

There is something about girl friends and the past that just never seem to mix. This weekend I got in a fight with my girl friend Lauren about my past. She brought up a girl that I hooked up with right before we started going out and said that I almost ruined our relationship. This is just a ridiculous statement and made me very mad for several reasons first of all I was not even close to ruining any relationship. I kissed this other girl at a party once and that was is. It did not have any lasting relationship I did not even get her phone number screen or name. I really did not have much interest in this other girl at all. It was clearly a one time thing and we weren’t going out. I really don’t understand what the problem is. I was also mad at Lauren because we have made a deal not to bring up past relationships. Those convos always end badly; I don’t know why they just do. We like each other a lot. Neither of us could ever cheat and there is really no threat to our relationship at all, we just always fight when we bring up past relationships. It really doesn’t make any since we are both fairly mature and understanding. It would also be hard to do to make it through 19 years and not have a past relationship so it’s something that just has to be dealt with. I just don’t understand why Lauren felt that is was necessary to bring up this other girl. We were talking on the phone about nothing the way most of our weekend night conversations go. We were joking around and having fun, and of cores she brought this up for no reason. Like most of out fights it lasted about an hour and then we just made up but that’s not the point. I just don’t it